Has LIFE ever thrown you a curveball?

Something happens that you would never have expected. I guess that's the whole point of calling the "unexpected" a curveball... huh? It may very well be that it is not the curveball itself that surprises us, but it is the disappointment from our expectations not being fulfilled.

For me that disappoint is unfortunately not being able to compete in the upcoming WBFF World Titles as I had planned!

Now that in itself is obviously disappointing, as competing at the World Titles has been something I have been focused on and committed to for a long period of time. 

But in this instance it is the curve ball itself that is more concerning... it has led me to make this decision just 2 days before I was meant to fly out for Toronto, Canada.

Along my journey I have constantly said that nothing will stop me... I have overcome numerous obstacles and I can genuinely say I am proud of not only what I have achieved but who I have become as part of the process.

So no doubt you are wondering what is this curveball?  

I am not going to go into the specifics other than to say that FAMILY comes first and there is a greater need for me to be here with my family at this time.

Although this news will come as a shock to many and perhaps may even be disappointing to a few... it is a decision which although it had to be made quickly is one that I am already comfortable with and have accepted.

What Good Is Having Expectations? Why Not Drop All Expectations?

Planned events always have a certain amount of expectation!

For me it was to stand on stage and put my phyZique up against the best in the world. Nothing more nothing less – Did I believe I could win and desire to do so... ABSOLUTELY!

I believe it is really helpful to remain optimistic with our expectations... positive expectations produce positive actions!

We naturally have expectations. We want to be in control of our lives. We want to be offered that perfect job. We want our family to support us. We want to be desirable to our partners. We want to be treated fairly. We want, we want, we want, and we want... of course we do. 

Why We Don't Always Get What We Want

But, sometimes, there is a greater plan in play. We don't always get what we want, but we always get what is right for us. The curveball coming our way requires us to duck or dodge, altering our game plan. The rules have changed, our expectations altered once again. We get to see things differently. Sometimes the alternate path offered is a difficult one. Keep your eyes open, there are gems to be found along the challenging and rocky pathways.

I look at the journey I initially commenced out on... to compete at the WBFF World Titles and although this now will not be realised I am thankful for all it has brought into my life.

• I have connected with amazing people.
• I have achieved my best condition ever.
• I started and continue to develop - Dre’s Fitness Group (FB & Blog) 
• I have started my Cookbook – MasterDre’s Anabolic Kitchen 
• It has rekindled my passion to help educate, inspire and assist others in achieving their health & fitness goals.

One thing I am sure of is this... Life is good!

As for the curveball, I refuse to duck or dodge... I am stepping up to the plate, batter up – I am ready to swing again!

  

I would like to thank everyone who has been following my journey, has been supportive and offered encouragement... it has been very much appreciated.

I don’t see this as the end, rather as a new beginning, an opportunity.... what it brings, I am yet to determine or discover... but I am open and excited by the possibilities and ready for the challenges ahead!

I refuse to be the victim - I choose to be the VICTOR.

Yours in health and fitness

Dre